Wednesday, February 18, 2009 Points to Ponder Saw someone's blog posts and have a urge to pour wat i feel..
A lost of words.. I do not know how to convey what i have in my mind into this blog. The main point of my thots are, are you a selfish person that can only accept love and concern the way you like? and ignore the love and concern showed in other way that frustrate you.
for example, many of us has been nagged at by our parents, do you think they are not showing you love by nagging? its becos they love you, that is why they spend energy and effort to nag at you, trying to drill that info into your head.. but yet. many of us are ignoring the love that are expressed in this manner..
mayb that is the usual thing in r/s. jus like, some guys may show their affection by caring for her, others by teasing her, some even try to avoid her.. its individual behavior when its comes to showing affection.. though ive seen some real life cases wher a guy treat a gal as good fren and joke with her by teasing her, but turned out the gal was offended.. i'm sure between humans, especially on the PR areas, there is alot room for us to learn.
we should try to look at the whole picture instead of thinkin of negative issue.. Do not try to look at everything on the negative side! There are always two sides to a coin..
Roy, I'm sure your dad cares for you.. Just opened up your heart a little more, give him more room to express his loves.. Treasure them while you can.. Leave no rooms for regrets in the future.. Jiayou Roy!
